Wedding Card Messages: 100 Heartfelt Wishes To Inspire

Discover heartfelt, formal, funny, and religious wedding card messages—plus thoughtful tips to write the perfect message for any couple.

By Shinta

Aug 30, 2025

Discover heartfelt, formal, funny, and religious wedding card messages—plus thoughtful tips to write the perfect message for any couple.

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What to Write in a Wedding Card: 100 Best Wishes and Sentiments

When you’re attending a wedding, one of the most meaningful gestures is giving the happy couple a card with a thoughtful message. Whether you’ve known the couple for years or you’re celebrating new friends, finding the right words can sometimes feel daunting. This article provides you with inspiration, etiquette tips, and 100 wedding card message ideas to express your joy, congratulations, or heartfelt blessings for the big day.

Why Wedding Wishes Matter

Wedding cards are keepsakes that many couples treasure long after the last dance. A personal sentiment can make even the simplest card memorable. From timeless, formal greetings to witty or deeply personal remarks, what you write can provide comfort, laughter, and lasting joy.

Wedding Card Writing Etiquette and Tips

Use the couple’s preferred names and titles: If you know the couple well, use first names. For more formal relationships, include honorifics.
Personalize your message: Share a unique connection, inside joke, or memory to make your card stand out.
Keep it positive and uplifting: Avoid topics or jokes that could be seen as negative or inappropriate.
Length matters: A few thoughtful lines are often enough, but don’t hesitate to write more if you’re inspired.
Consider your relationship to the couple: Adjust your tone and content (formal, casual, humorous, or religious) based on how well you know them.

Common Sections of a Wedding Card Message

Greeting: Address the couple warmly. For example, “Dear Alex and Morgan,”
Well wishes: Offer congratulations, blessings, or best wishes for their marriage.
Personal touch: Share a memory or words of advice.
Closing: Sign off with your name and a warm closing phrase.

Wedding Card Messages by Style

Formal Wedding Wishes

Perfect for ceremonies with a traditional tone or when you want to show respect and elegance.

“Wishing you a lifetime filled with love, joy, and happiness.”
“Congratulations on your marriage. May your union be blessed for years to come.”
“May the love you share today grow stronger as you grow old together.”
“Best wishes on this wonderful journey, as you build your new lives together.”
“May your joining together bring you more joy than you can imagine.”

Casual and Friendly Wedding Messages

When you’re close to the couple or want a relaxed, informal tone.

“So happy for you both! Here’s to the adventure ahead.”
“Congrats, you two! Wishing you lots of love and laughter.”
“Cheers to your big day and all the incredible memories to come!”
“Wishing you all the happiness in the world.”
“Love wins! So excited for your future together.”

Funny Wedding Wishes

Bring a smile to the couple’s faces with these lighthearted messages (use good judgment based on your relationship and the couple’s sense of humor).

“Marriage lets you annoy one special person for the rest of your life. Congrats!”
“You two are truly made for each other. Proof that soulmates—and mutual weirdness—exist!”
“Congrats on finding someone to tolerate your quirks!”
“May your love be modern enough to survive the times and old-fashioned enough to last forever.”
“Here’s to love, laughter, and never calling the in-laws for backup!”

Religious Wedding Wishes

If you know the couple’s faith background, sharing a message of spiritual encouragement or blessing can be deeply meaningful.

“May God bless your union and guide you in your new life together.”
“Wishing you a marriage as strong as your faith.”
“May the Lord be the foundation of your love and home.”
“Praying that Christ’s love remains at the heart of your marriage.”
“God’s blessings to you both on this joyful day.”

Wedding Messages for Family Members

Whether you’re a parent, sibling, cousin, or grandparent, tailoring your message for family can add a special touch.

“To my dear sister and her wonderful new husband—wishing you a lifetime of love and laughter.”
“So proud of you both! Welcome to the family.”
“Family is everything, and today ours is even brighter.”
“As your brother, I’ve seen your love grow—can’t wait to see what’s next.”
“Your marriage is an inspiration to all of us.”

Wedding Wishes for Friends

The right words can express your joy and support for your closest companions.

“You two are proof that true love exists. Wishing you the best life together.”
“To a friendship that grew into a beautiful love—cheers!”
“Here’s to a lifetime of inside jokes and new adventures.”
“May your days be filled with laughter and your nights with comfort.”
“Couldn’t be happier to watch you start your forever.”

Wedding Wishes for Coworkers and Acquaintances

When you want to be respectful, professional, and kind.

“Congratulations on your marriage! Wishing you a wonderful journey together.”
“Best wishes as you begin this exciting new chapter.”
“May your marriage be filled with laughter, respect, and endless joy.”
“Wishing you both continued success—at work and in love!”
“Congratulations and warmest wishes to you both.”

Sentiments for Same-Sex Couples

It’s always best to write from the heart, but these messages celebrate all love stories.

“Wishing you a lifetime of love and equality.”
“Your love sets a beautiful example for everyone.”
“May your days be filled with pride and happiness.”
“Here’s to your love, your story, and your forever.”
“Love is love—congratulations to two wonderful people.”

How to Personalize Your Wedding Card

While templates are helpful, your personal touch can mean everything. Consider:

Referencing a meaningful moment you shared with the couple.
Offering a piece of marriage advice (only if appropriate).
Quoting a favorite lyric, poem, or scripture that suits the couple’s style.
Mentioning a quality you admire in their relationship.
Sharing your excitement for their future adventures.

What Not to Write in a Wedding Card

Avoid jokes about divorce, prenuptial agreements, or marital strife.
Don’t bring up past relationships or exes.
Be cautious with personal advice unless you know it will be well received.
Steer clear of overtly negative or controversial topics.

Wedding Card Closing Examples

Wrap up your message with a warm, loving closing line before your signature. Popular options include:

With all our love,
Congratulations,
Best wishes always,
Warmest regards,
With joy,

Sign your name(s) below the closing. Couples or families can sign together, or individually, depending on your relationship with the couple.

100 Wedding Card Messages and Wishes

For more inspiration, here’s a collection of 100 wedding wishes, grouped by tone and relationship to the couple:

May today be the beginning of a long, happy life together.
Cheers to a lifetime of love and laughter.
Wishing you a partnership full of joy and support.
May your love story always be your favorite.
Congratulations on your perfect match!
Wishing you countless happy years ahead.
Your wedding day will come and go, but may your love forever grow.
May your marriage be filled with trust, respect, and love.
Congratulations and best wishes for a lifetime of happiness together.
Your adventure is just beginning—may it be everything you’ve dreamed and more.
Your love is inspiring—congratulations!
May every day bring new joys in your journey as a married couple.
Cheers to the new Mr. and Mrs. (or Ms. and Ms., Mr. and Mr., etc.)!
May your love be the light that guides you through life’s darkest days.
So grateful to be part of your celebration—cheers to forever!
Wishing you strength, laughter, and endless happiness.
Your wedding is a celebration of hope, love, and promise.
May the days ahead be filled with lasting joy.
Congratulations! Here’s to a lifetime of incredible memories together.
Happy wedding day! May every wish you make come true.
Welcome to the married club—best wishes as you start this wonderful chapter.
Two hearts, one love. Congratulations.
So happy for you both—your joy is contagious!
May your marriage be a never-ending adventure of love.
Today is just the beginning of your beautiful story together.
Wishing you a journey filled with wonder, discovery, and love.
May your days be as happy and bright as your wedding day.
So thrilled to see you both tie the knot—best wishes always.
From this day forward, may your love be stronger each day.
Sending you all the love and joy on your special day.
Wishing you both a world of happiness and years of love.
May your love be a model for all those around you.
Here’s to a beautiful wedding and an even more beautiful marriage.
Your love brings so much joy to everyone you know—cheers to forever!
May your marriage be blessed with trust, respect, and endless happiness.
Wishing you a very happy wedding and a lifetime of dreams come true.
Congratulations to a wonderful couple who truly deserve the best.
Best wishes for a harmonious and joy-filled marriage.
Your adventure begins today—journey well together!
May your hearts always find their way back to each other.
To the bride and groom—may your love never fade.
May your love bloom brighter with each passing year.
Sending love and congratulations to a remarkable couple!
May each year bring you closer and fill your lives with joy.
Happiest wedding wishes to you both on your big day.
Wishing you great happiness and a marriage full of laughter.
Cheers to the best match I know!
May your marriage be filled with every blessing and joy.
Best wishes today and always—love is a beautiful adventure.
May the home you build together be filled with love and laughter.
True love stories never have endings—wishing you yours.
May your love keep growing, and your sorrows be few.
Wishing you both an amazing journey as husband and wife.
Your marriage is blessed with warmth and wonder—congratulations!
Here’s to many happy years ahead.
May every day as a married couple be your new favorite.
Wishing you a life full of passion, love, and peace.
Best wishes for a fun-filled, loving marriage.
May your love carry you through all of life’s seasons together.
Congratulations to a love that’s built to last!
Here’s to the start of something amazing—cheers to you both!
May your wedding day be just the beginning of a lifelong romance.
Wishing you both a partnership filled with understanding and happiness.
To the new couple—may your happiness never end!
Your wedding day will come and go, but may your love forever grow.
May you find new reasons to love each other every day.
Happiest wishes for your marriage and the years to come.
Congratulations, and may your love flourish forever.
May your marriage be everything you hope for and more.
Thanks for letting us witness your fairytale come to life.
Here’s to making every day special as you do today.
Wishing you an endless honeymoon together.
Cheers to love, laughter, and a happily ever after.
May your best days be ahead of you always.
Wishing you both comfort and joy, today and always.
May you always bring out the best in each other.
Your love is a true blessing—congrats!
Here’s to a marriage filled with dreams come true.
To a love that’s real—congratulations!
Wishing you a partnership built on trust and laughter.
May your wedding day be everything you’ve ever dreamed of.
Congratulations on your wedding—may it be the happiest day of your life.
To the perfect pair—cheers to your forever love.
May your love light always guide you home.
Here’s to joy, peace, and love—now and always.
May your marriage be filled with sweet surprises.
To love and friendship—cheers to you both!
Wishing you a future full of romance and laughter.
Here’s to a union blessed with harmony and grace.
So proud to celebrate this day with you.
May every wish for your wedding come true.
Here’s to a journey of love, laughter, and happiness.
May your days be filled with peace and your nights with bliss.
Wishing you a lifetime of beautiful memories together.
Congratulations to the newlyweds—may your love shine bright.
May your hearts always beat as one.
Sending all my love on your special day.
Cheers to a marriage filled with joy, understanding, and adventure.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

How do I start a wedding card message?

Begin with a warm greeting using the couple’s names (e.g., “Dear Taylor and Jamie,”). For formal messages, include titles and last names.

What if I don’t know one of the newlyweds well?

Keep your message friendly and positive. A simple “Congratulations and best wishes on your marriage” is always appreciated.

Should I write different messages for religious vs. non-religious couples?

Yes, try to reflect the couple’s beliefs and values. Offer religious blessings only when you know they’ll be meaningful to the couple.

Can I include humor in a wedding card?

Absolutely, as long as it matches the couple’s sense of humor and is in good taste. Avoid anything that could be perceived as negative or divisive.

Do I need to handwrite the message?

Handwritten messages feel more personal, but it’s okay to use a printed card if your handwriting is difficult to read or you want to ensure clarity.

Final Thoughts

Whether you write something sentimental, humorous, brief, or poetic, the most meaningful wedding card message is one that comes from the heart. Use the ideas and guidance above to help craft a message the newlyweds will cherish for years to come.

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Shinta

Shinta is a biotechnologist turned writer. She holds a master's degree in Biotechnology from Karunya Institute of Technology and Sciences and a PG Diploma in cellular and molecular diagnostics from Manipal University. Shinta realised her love for content while working as an editor for a scientific journal.

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